Words mean things, but intent adds meaning

Unless you are living on a remote island by yourself, then you know that conversations with other people can be difficult. Communicating is about giving and receiving. A gift is always given with intent. It’s your birthday, I want to celebrate you. Here is a gift. You did something cool, I want to congratulate you. Here is a gift. You hurt my feelings. I care about you and want you to know. Here is a gift. The problem is on the receiving end. We don’t hear the reason behind the words you are giving me. If they strike a negative chord with you, pause and ask for the meaning. Intent adds color. This simple act has the potential to take your relationships to the next level.